Common Questions
"The whole world needs to hear two things with strength and power: 'God loves you' and 'I love you.' You must say it often to your friends. This world is not starving from a lack of money. It's starving from a want of love."
Mother Angelica
1. What are the rules for visiting with family and friends?
We are able to visit with our immediate family twice a year for two and a half days each time. It is always a great time of catching up on family news and enjoying those precious moments together. One of the graces of our cloistered life is that when we are with our family, it is without the distractions of our chaotic world. Conversations and relationships deepen through the mutual sacrifice we make of that separation for the sake of the Kingdom of God. We also enjoy the gift of visits with friends who come to the Shrine or as special occasions arise. Ceremony days are also a special time of celebrating with our loved ones as we are able to invite extended family and friends to witness these milestones in our vocation.
"He didn't say we couldn't love anything; He just said, prefer Me to everything. I should honor and love those most close to me... but if it came time to choose between them and God, I must go with God."
Mother Angelica
2. What do you do for recreation and how much time?
Recreation is from 6:30 to 7 pm on most evenings of the week. Young Sisters often play active games and we all enjoy board games. We also spend recreation sitting together and talking while working on simple arts and crafts, like hand sewing or Rosary-making. It's a time full of laughing, sharing about something we've read, or recounting memorable things that happened throughout the day.
"You must laugh at yourself so you are able to take your neighbor's faults with a grain of salt. Give him the privilege of being imperfect - just like you, sweetheart."
Mother Angelica
3. What does a typical day in your life look like?
We wake up at 5:25 a.m. and begin our day in the Chapel with the chanting of the hours of Office of Readings and Morning Prayer of the Divine Office. All throughout the day, there is at least one Sister assigned to Adoration so that at each hour we take turns coming before Him to live out our beautiful charism of Adoration in a spirit of reparative thanksgiving. Holy Mass is at 7 a.m. which is the high point of our day - a daily Christmas and Easter as we encounter the gift of His Incarnation, Passion and Resurrection poured out for us anew. After Mass, we chant Mid-Morning Prayer and then spend 30-45 minutes in a communal time of thanksgiving for the gift of His Coming to us in Holy Communion. We then have breakfast together and begin our daily work. Depending on the duties assigned to us, this may involve cooking our meals, cleaning, sacristy work, opening the mail, laundry, baking bread, working in the garden or orchard, taking care of our chickens, book-keeping, library work, sewing, and more! At 11:30 a.m., we all gather again in the Chapel for Midday Prayer and the Holy Rosary. We then eat lunch together and after dishes are done, we have about an hour of free time for rest, relaxation, exercise, or extra time in the Chapel or outside. At 2 p.m. we go back to our work until 3 p.m., when we chant Mid-Afternoon Prayer and pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet together. After this, there is more work time and also depending on the day, time for study or formation classes. At 5 p.m. we pray Evening and Night Prayer and then have our supper together. After dishes, we have recreation together which is always an enjoyable time to talk and laugh together, as we keep an atmosphere of silence in the Monastery throughout the rest of the day. Some evenings we have choir practice at this time. At 8 p.m. Grand Silence begins which is a time of greater quiet and solitude as we enter into more focused recollection and preparation for our participation in Holy Mass and reception of Our Lord in Holy Communion the next morning. We can spend time in the Chapel or in our cells, praying or reading until lights out at 10 p.m.
"To be able to say Yes to God at every moment of our lives is the essence of holiness. It really doesn't matter whether you are at prayer, whether you are working, whether you are recreating, whether you're eating or sleeping - nothing should separate you from Jesus."
Mother Angelica
4. What do the activities of your day look like throughout the year?
Our life is greatly shaped by the seasons of the liturgical year and even the seasons of nature. We dedicate some time every day to working on our land, which means pruning our vineyard during the winter months, preparing seedlings in our greenhouse, and then planting and cultivating our garden throughout the spring and summer. Berry harvesting usually happens around May, and our orchard comes to life in early summer, grapes in the early fall, and vegetables all throughout. But the heart and center of our life, the chanting of the Divine Office and our hours of Adoration form a constant foundation throughout the year.
"You are called by God at this time in history to be so holy that this whole world will be sanctified. And you're going to do that only by being yourself and changing that self into Jesus."
Mother Angelica
5. How many sisters are here and what are the typical ages?
We have 16 Sisters and currently range in age from 20 to 94 and are growing! The majority of our Sisters are young and many entered right after high school or in their early college years. We have an annual Saint Clare Retreat for discerners, and often from this group, a young woman will feel called to pursue Aspirancy with us for 3 months. After this, if she wishes to continue, there is an application process and then if she is accepted by the Community, a date for her entrance ceremony is set. In 2023, we had the amazing blessing of 4 entrances! We are so grateful to God for every vocation we receive which is a great gift for our Community and for the Church. It is so beautiful to see young hearts captivated with the desire to give themselves totally to God in the Religious Life.
"God used little portions. Don't pin God down to anything. He can do what He wants, when He wants, how He wants, because these made themselves, allowed themselves to be, little portions."
Mother Angelica
6. Do you have any pets or animals?
We do! We have 4 and a half cats (one is a partly wild stray who comes in and out of the enclosure through a drain) and over 30 chickens along with a rooster. We raised the chickens from little baby chicks and keep them for laying eggs. There are so many different beautiful colors and we love to watch as they roam around the garden. We also have quite a few families of rabbits who make their home in our yard, along with (unfortunately) a few skunks!
"God knows Himself and every created thing perfectly. Not a blade of grass or the tiniest insect escapes His Eye."
Mother Angelica
"God keeps the entire Universe in order, and still finds time to take a personal interest in you and me."Mother Angelica
7. What is it about your order you love most?
That we are dedicated to Eucharistic Adoration! What an unfathomable gift we have in Our Lord's Real Presence among us. It is an amazing privilege to be called to live out our lives at His Feet, in His Shadow and adore Him on behalf of the whole world. Living under the same roof with Him and coming back again and again throughout the day to encounter His Loving Gaze and to be able to offer Him our presence in return for His, is an absolutely overwhelming grace.
"The height of contemplative prayer is to have your heart with God...Just to stand before the Lord in loving presence with your mind totally blank is the highest form of prayer, and sometimes we squash that because of our pride. Our pride tells us we ought to be doing something. When we get to a high form of prayer, God does it all, and we are content to be humble in His Presence."
Mother Angelica
8. What is the hardest thing?
It depends. Different things can be hard at different times. There are many challenges that are also the greatest gifts and joys. Community life has its difficulties because we bring all our uniqueness with us into the cloister, but it's also such a beautiful grace and encouragement to live this life together. The constancy of our life can be a challenge in different seasons of life. We live a very structured life but this also lends itself to great freedom and peace that comes from stable routines. Some sacrifices, such as not having children of our own remind us that we are to live our call faithfully so that many children may come to know God.
"You know, a diamond at one time was a piece of coal. By unbelievable pressure this ugly piece of coal is turned into a diamond. It's sort of like our interior lives. A lot of us are inundated by pressures, all permitted by the Lord, intended to transform us into spiritual diamonds."
Mother Angelica
9. Do you have a library?
Yes, we have a wonderful library, which is a very important part of a Monastery. We have all of the spiritual classics, many works of theology and philosophy, writings of the Fathers of the Church and Scripture commentaries. We have a good amount of books on world and Church history, geography, and nature. There is a large selection of biographies of the Saints, and a fantastic selection of the great works of literature.
"One of the problems with reading the lives of the saints is that you're reading about people who have achieved a high degree of union with God. Rarely included are the multitudinous rises and falls they experienced; or the time it took them to get to that place of union."
Mother Angelica
"It's your obligation to speak the truth, and everyone can either take it or leave it. But truth must be in us. We live in such a poverty of truth today."Mother Angelica
10. Are you allowed to study?
Yes, study has always been an important part of the monastic tradition. Our Novitiate Sisters have guided study programs which are a part of their formation in Religious Life. Professed Sisters are free to pursue studies of their own interests such as the works of a particular Saint, or perhaps an area of history or even a foreign language.
"Where most men work for degrees after their names, we work for one before our names: 'St.' It's a much more difficult degree to attain. It takes a lifetime, and you don't get your diploma until you're dead."
Mother Angelica
11. Is it claustrophobic in the cloister?
Not at all! We don't even notice the bars in the parlor or the walls around the yard. This may be partly because we have a spacious enclosure. But it is deeper than that. If a young woman feels "trapped" inside the cloister, this is a sign that she is not called to this life. We like to say that the locks are on the inside. Living in a restricted area is not something we are subjected to, but something we have freely chosen - not for its own sake, but to help us to focus entirely on He Who is our All. So many distractions are stripped away in the enclosure which fosters our silence, our recollection, our relationship with our Spouse.
"Everybody wants to know who they are, where they're going, and what they're doing...Identity is becoming. You can only understand it by knowing Him, because He has a very special plan for you."
Mother Angelica
